The tap-to-date band · No app for them

Delete the apps.Walk up.

oysterme is for single people bold enough to meet in real life. See someone. Say hi. Tap your band to their phone. They see the verified, vouched-for you, right there. No swiping. No app for them. No three weeks of texting a stranger.

They don't need an appFree profile + QR code, live tonightAdd the band anytimeBand ships in 2–3 days
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10:42
Saturday, November 1
oystermeTap to see Sarah's page
You met Sarah · Tonight

Sarah, 34

✓ ID verified · 5 vouches
Save contactGive my number
GIVE SARAH YOUR NUMBER First name
Jordan
Phone
(216) 555-0142
Instagram (optional)
@jordan.r
✓ Sent. Sarah will text you from her phone.
Send to Sarah
SARAH SENT YOU A SPARK ✨
Pick a first date
☕ Coffee🍸 A drink🚶 A walk🎳 Something fun
IT'S MUTUALCoffee it is ☕
FIRST DATE PREP
You + Sarah
WhenThu · 7:30 PM
WhereCoffee near you
Ask her aboutThe farmers market. You both picked it.
✓ Plan shared with a friend
tap.
✓Their phone. No app. No account.
Join the movement Bring back the old-school hello.

Only on oysterme

From hello to second date.

01 · SPARK

Pick the first date together.

After the tap, you both pick what a first date looks like. Coffee, a drink, a walk, something fun. If your picks line up, it's a plan. If they don't, you lead with theirs.

  • Picks stay sealed until you both choose
  • "I don't drink" is always an option
Spark with Sarah2 of 2 picked
First date?
☕ CoffeeEasy, daytime🍸 A drinkCocktails, mocktails, whatever🚶 A walkPark or waterfront🎳 Something funBowling, trivia, mini golf
IT'S MUTUALCoffee it is ☕
02 · FACETIME DATE

See them before you meet them.

Not ready for a full date? They pick a day and time for a quick video call. You confirm from your own phone. No weeks of texting.

  • No account needed for them
  • Your number stays private until you reach out
Let's schedule a FaceTime date‹ Back
TueWedThuFri
6 PM7 PM8 PM9 PM
✓ Request sent · Thursday, 8 PM
03 · FIRST DATE PREP

Walk in ready.

Before the date, you get one page with the plan, the things you both picked, and a few easy questions to ask. Share the plan with a friend in one tap.

  • Built from their vibe check and Spark picks
  • Share your plan with a friend, for peace of mind
First date prepTonight
You + Sarah
WhenThu · 7:30 PM
WhereCoffee near you
Ask her aboutThe farmers market. You both picked it for a perfect Sunday.
Share my plan with a friend
04 · FIRST DATE FEEDBACK

Second date? Only if it's mutual.

After the date, a quick private check-in. How did it go, and would you see them again? If you both say yes, you both find out. If not, nobody gets turned down out loud.

  • Private. Never shown on your page
  • No awkward "so… wanna hang out again?" text
How was coffee with Sarah?Private
😬🙂😊🤩
See her again?
YesMaybeNo
Sarah only finds out if it's mutual.
05 · WHERE YOU MET

Never forget who you met.

Every tap is stamped with when and where it happened, on their screen and in your app. See who opened your page, who gave you their number, and who sent a Spark.

  • "You met Sarah · Saturday night"
  • Your night out, in one list
Your tapsThis weekend
Sarah · Saturday nightGave you her number · Sent a Spark
Jordan · Saturday nightOpened your page
Maya · Friday, after workRequested a FaceTime date

The problem

Swiping is easy. That's the problem.

Dating apps turned meeting people into a chore you do on the couch. The chemistry was never on the screen. It's across the room.

Hundreds of matchesOne real conversation.
Weeks of texting a strangerFive minutes face to face.
"Is this even them?"Verified, vouched for, standing right there.
Hoping they swipe backWalking up and saying hi.

How it works

Three moves. All yours.

  1. Say hi

    At the bar, the wedding, the gym, the airport. The band gives you the excuse, and the nerve.

  2. Tap

    Hold your band to their phone. Your page opens instantly. They don't need an app or an account.

  3. Let them choose

    They can give you their number, request a FaceTime date, or play your vibe check. The next move is easy for both of you.

Zero friction

They don't need the app. Not even an account.

  • Opens in their browserYour page pops up the second you tap. Nothing to download.
  • Works on iPhone and AndroidMost phones read a tap. Any phone can scan your QR code.
  • They're in control tooThey choose whether to give you their number. No sign-up wall.

What they see

Proof you're worth meeting.

Not a business card. Not a bio you wrote at 2 a.m. A page that shows who you really are.

✓ID verifiedA selfie matched to a government ID. You're exactly who you say you are.
💬Vouched forFriends, family and coworkers say a few words, each one verified.
💌Let your ex leave a review NEWTotally optional. It comes to you first, and you decide if it shows. Bold move, big payoff.
🎙️Your voiceA 30-second hello. They hear you before they ever text you.
✨Vibe checkFive quick this-or-that picks. No score, just things to talk about.
📰Featured, Instagram and moreArticles, videos, your prompts and interests, your feed. The whole you, not just a photo.
📱FaceTime date or their numberOne tap to keep it going, on their terms.
You met Sarah · Saturday night

Sarah, 34

✓ ID verified📍 Lives in Cleveland, OH💼 Marketing director📏 5'6"WomanSingle for 1 year
▶Hear Sarah 0:18

Farmers market regular. Terrible at mini golf, great at road-trip playlists. Looking for someone who actually calls back.

VIBE CHECKLet's do the vibe checkLet's play →
📹Let's schedule a FaceTime dateA quick video call is an easy, comfortable way to get to know each other before meeting in person.Pick a time
What people say about Sarah✓ 5 verified
💌 FROM AN EX

"We didn't work out, but she's the most loyal person I know."

"She shows up for everyone. Makes the best playlists."

Jess · Friend

"Calm in every crisis. Funniest person on our team."

Dan · Coworker
View all 5 testimonials
MY PERFECT SUNDAY

Farmers market, a long walk with coffee, then a cooking project that may or may not work.

🥾 Hiking🍳 Cooking🎶 Live music✈️ Travel🐶 Dogs
FEATURED
ARTICLECleveland's 30 Women to WatchLocal business journal
▶My first half marathonVideo · 0:42
INSTAGRAM
@sarah.cleFollow
💬 Text Sarah
Sarah oystered you.Get your own oysterme →
Save Sarah's contactGive Sarah my number
↕ Scroll Sarah's page · Example profile

The scenario

One tap. That's the whole move.

Dramatization. The people in this video are AI-generated.

Your best dating profile. On your wrist. Ready when you are.

The band is the signal

Coral means say hi.

The hardest part of meeting someone is not knowing if they're open to it. The band answers that before anyone says a word. Wear it, and you've already made the first move.

Single and open to a helloTaps share your Dating pageSwitch to Pro for work. Same band, different page.

New · Out tonight · oysterme+

Know where to go.

You've got the band. Now find where singles mingle. Type your zip and see this week's singles events, meetups, and the spots where singles actually go out, with the best night to show up.

  • Speed dating, mixers and singles nights
  • Run clubs, trivia, tastings and meetups
  • Popular spots, with the best night to go
  • A weekly "Out tonight" email for your zip
THU6Speed Dating: Professionals 30–42Akron · 7:00 PM · $35Singles event
FRI7Singles Mixer on the RooftopCleveland · 8:00 PM · FreeSingles event
SAT8Run Club 5K + CoffeeAkron · 8:00 AM · FreeMeetup
SAT8Riverside TaproomBest night: Friday triviaSpot
20+ more this week 🔒Included with oysterme+

Sample results. Every listing links to its source.

You're in control

Bold, not reckless.

Being brave in person shouldn't mean giving away your privacy. You decide what they see, and for how long.

EXPIRESYour page closes when the night doesEvery tap link expires after 24 hours.
PRIVATEYour number is never on your pageYou share it only when you choose.
PAUSEPause modeTaking a break? Your band shows nothing until you turn it back on.
CONTROLTurn off any tapHide photos, shut a specific tap's link, block anyone who shared back.
HIDDENNever on GoogleYour page is never indexed by search engines.
QUIETWe never text or call anyoneEvery message comes from your own phone.

Don't wait for the mail

Start tonight.

Your QR is live now.

Sign up free and your page is live right away. Add your QR code to Apple or Google Wallet and share it tonight. Want the tap? Add the band anytime.

Get started for free

Bring your wingman.

Nobody goes out alone. Two bands for $59, and the second one is theirs to keep: their own band, their own free profile. It comes in a gift envelope, ready to hand over. Twice the nerve, half the awkward.

Bring a friend · 2 for $59 Or send a band as a gift →

Questions

Before you walk up.

Can I start for free?

Yes. Sign up free to build your profile and get your QR code, and start sharing tonight. The band is an add-on whenever you want the tap.

Does the other person need the app?

No. Your page opens in their phone's browser. No download, no account.

Will it work with their phone?

Most iPhones and Android phones from the last several years can read a tap. If one can't, they scan your QR code with the camera instead.

Can they see my number?

No. Your number is never on your page. They can give you theirs, and you text them from your own phone.

What if I'm wearing it at work?

Switch to Pro mode and the same band shares your professional page instead. Switch back for the weekend.

What is Out tonight?

An oysterme+ feature: type your zip and see this week's singles events, meetups and popular spots near you, each linked to its source. Free members see a preview.

How does the wingman pack work?

You get two bands, each with its own activation card. Keep one and give the other to a friend. They scan it, set up their own free profile, and it's theirs for good. Nothing to hand back at the end of the night.

Do I have to do the ex review?

Not at all. It's optional. If you invite an ex, their review comes to you first and only shows if you approve it.

The world is your oyster

Someone in that room is hoping you'll say hi.

Be the one who does.

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